19 conversations tips for couples...enjoy it...living life.

When two people start falling in love, they feel that it would never be possible to run out of things to say to each other. But sooner or later, a time comes when even the most devoted of couples may begin to wonder what else to talk about. Which is a pity really, since conversations are one of the most natural ways to know more about each other. So if you are raring to discover more about the new person in your life or simply need to break the monotony of years of marriage, here are a few conversation topics to get you started.

1. Hobbies are one of the most dependable topics of conversation, no matter how long you have known each other. If you are new to the relationship, discuss hobbies that your partner loved as a child. On the other hand, if you have been married for several years, explore the possibility of doing something new with each other – like going for a hike on Saturdays or taking a salsa class for couples every Wednesday night. Pursuing mutual interests may help you to come closer to each other while doing something fun at the same time.

2. Vacations comprise one of the most remembered memories among humans. Ask your partner what was the best vacation he/she took before meeting you and why it was fun. You may be surprised to know that some of the most enjoyable vacations may have been weekend trips and not necessarily spent at exotic destinations. Moreover the conversation might offer you valuable pointers on what your partner likes doing best on holidays.

3. If you are taking a walk at the park, discuss the possibility of having pets someday and if you may, what would you choose to keep. Again if you are already the proud owners of a Labrador or an African parrot, you may think aloud on how having a pet has made a difference to your lives. The topic might seem mundane but it really sounds out issues of home, commitment and role of family in your lives.

4. Ask about your partner’s day after he/she returns home from work. They may be too tired to say much but the very fact that there is somebody to ask after them may speak volumes of your love and support.

5. Discussions on future make very interesting conversations, though you may need to tread lightly on touchy issues like kids or finances. Rather ask your partner to name five new things he/she would like to learn before turning forty/fifty/sixty and so on.

5. If you share common culinary passions, you are unlikely to ever run out of delicious things to say to each other. Discuss a new recipe that you may have come across a magazine or vow to try out the new Lebanese-themed restaurant in town on your next date.

6. Pore over old albums with your partner and you are certain to have a lot to talk about. Pick up clues from your partner’s attitude on what photos bring back happy memories and then ask him/her to tell you more about the time it was taken.

7. Choose one aspect of your partner’s physical make-up and compliment him/her on it. If you love the way dimples form on her cheeks when she laughs, say so. Or if your find the small arch of his lower back insanely attractive, tell him that. Your partner will not only be pleased with your words but the conversation could veer to what else you love about each other – something of which no couple can ever have enough.

8. Inject some fun into your conversations by having him/her tell you about the yuckiest thing they ever had to do. It may be something from their high school chemistry class or the first time they got completely sozzled with friends.

9. Invite your partner to talk about his or her family. Most people will fondly remember an autumn fishing trip with dad or counting starts on a late summer evening with mom. However if you know that your partner had an unhappy childhood, steer clear of this topic.

10. Ask your partner about the best teacher he/she had and why. It could be because the teacher could make the subject come alive like no one ever did or because the teacher taught the most important life lessons your partner ever came across.

11. Spice things up between you two by discussing an erotic fantasy or a crazy thought. However remember to keep it light and fun and don’t bring an element of stress by expecting the other person to act anything out.

12. Sharing pleasant memories about childhood can also make great conversation between couples. Tell your partner about the first time you spent a night away from home and whether it was a sleepover at a friend’s place or a school trip.

13. If the two of you could just drop whatever you are doing and do something fun, ask your partner what would it be. This would be an interesting way of knowing what your partner enjoys doing most, especially in your company.

14. Life goals and values evolve over time and something or someone which you thought your partner considered important may not be so any more. So ask your partner if there was one

15. historical event that he/she could change, what it would be. If this is not the first time you are asking this question, you may be surprised by a different answer compared to the last time.

16. Talk about what you need to do more to make your partner feel loved and valued.

17. If you are sharing a home, discuss what material things are important to each of you. Prioritizing future purchases, especially expensive ones, might not seem a very romantic topic of conversation between couples but its lack can create problems in a relationship. So tackle these issues when there is still time.

18. If you want to know more about the values and ideals your partner holds high, ask about the kind of causes he/she would like to support and why.

19. Finally, don’t forget to tell your partner how much he/she means to you and about all the ways their love and mere presence has enriched your life.

By Kalyani10
From futurescopes.com

Budaya Hedonisme & Generasi Akan Datang

Assalamualaikum, salam sejahtera ke atas semua pelawat blog. Moga kita sentiasa di dalam rahmatnya. Perkongsian kali ini bakal membawa anda kepada permasalahan budaya "Hedonisme" yang kian menular, merebak umpama racun berbisa yang semakin menyerang remaja islam. Admin bukanlah pakar dalam soal ini. Cuma, sekadar berkongsi kefahaman dan pengetahuan.

Baiklah sahabat, apakah Hedonisme? Hedonisme adalah berhibur secara berlebihan, yakni secara melampau!

~Ya,terus apa bahayanya pada remaja kita?~
Baik, cuba anda baca apa yang akan saya sampaikan. Budaya ini mengajak remaja-remaja islam berhibur. Ya, memang tidak salah berhibur. Tetapi, budaya ini mengajak mereka berhibur secara BERLEBIHAN atau lebih tepat lagi secara MELAMPAU. Lihat kesannya,ia akan melahirkan generasi muda yang amat tidak mementingkan masa hadapan. Apa tidaknya, mereka hanya tahu berhibur dan bersuka-ria. Malah mungkin juga ada yang sampai melupakan kewajipan kepada agama.

"Remaja hari ini adalah pemimpin hari esok".
Lihat ayat ini. Era ini, kita memerlukan seorang pemimpin yang mampu memimpin dengan baik. Mampu memikul tanggungjawab tanpa khianat kepada mana-mana pihak. Cuba anda fikir, jika remaja kita terlibat dengan budaya Hedonisme ini, bagaimana pemimpin kita pada masa hadapan? Siapa pemimpin kita pada masa hadapan? Remaja pada hari ini bukan?! Ya! Justeru, budaya ini ternyata sangat berbahaya. Tidak perlu diterangkan dengan lebih panjang saya sudah tahu, anda dapat memahaminya bukan? Anda dapat memikirkan tentang impaknya bukan?

Sekali lagi saya ingin mengajak anda berfikir, rasanya, sesuaikah budaya hedonisme ini dengan kita sebagai masyarakat timur yang mementingkan budi bahasa dan adab sopan? Jika permasalahan ini tidak dititikberatkan, maka ia akan meracuni fikiran remaja-remaja yang masih belum berfikiran matang. Jika dibiarkan, sudah pasti ia akan mengubah adat hidup dan budi bicara mereka nanti. Benar bukan?

Banyak lagi budaya yang telah dilahirkan oleh Hedonisme ini. Antaranya, budaya MALAS.
Hedonisme telahpun membius, menyuntik dan melekakan pemikiran remaja, lalu mereka tidak lagi berusaha bersungguh-sungguh untuk mendapatkan sesuatu kerana apa yang mereka tahu hanyalah berhibur sahaja.Pada mereka, hidup hanya sekali, so? "Jom kita enjoy!". wah! Banyak cantik! Korang fikir hidup ini hanya untuk berseronok ya?

Kita dapat lihat sendiri. Gejala sosial turut dilahirkan oleh budaya Hedonisme ini. Eh, bagaimana itu? Baik, mari saya terangkan. Jika sudah di'set'kan di dalam mindanya, life is just for fun, maka sudah pasti hanya ingin gembira sahaja bukan? Hal ini dapat dibuktikan melalui pemerhatian kita, apabila remaja islam mula berkumpul di tempat-tempat yang tidak senonoh seperti di kelab malam, pub, disko dan sebagainya utntuk bersuka-ria. Nah! Di sinilah lahirnya gejala sosial itu. Penyakit sosial mula menjangkiti seperti, meminum arak, terkinja-kinja menari seperti orang gila, mendengar lagu-lagu rancak yang menyakitkan telinga sambil menggoyangkan kepala, bukan ada untungnya malah mengusutkan rambut sahaja. Buat apa yang mereka suka tanpa menghiraukan orang sekeliling. Mereka fikir orang lain tidak ada perasaankah?. Di mana perasaan malu? Di mana adab sopan masyarakat timur? Malah, di mana akhlak remaja islam? Ah, daripada sini,pasti juga akan berlaku pergaulan bebas lelaki dan perempuan yang akhirnya sudah tentu membawa kepada zina. Maka akan rosaklah remaja kita! Saya ulang sekali lagi, rosaklah remaja kita! Bakal menjadi sampah masyarakat.

Sekian, sampai di sini sahaja yang mampu saya kongsikan. Maaf jika masih banyak informasi yang belum dapat saya sampaikan. Moga kita diberi kefahaman. InsyaAllah.

Love Islam...Love yourself...Love your Future...Love your Generation...

Dipetik dan di olah dari islamkanjiwamu.blogspot.com

Belaian Oscar Tanda Ajal Telah Sampai

Oscar, kucing yang berpelesiran di hospital Steere House di Rhode Island, Amerika Syarikat memiliki keupayaan menghidu kematian.
- Foto www.metro.co.uk

BAGI mereka yang meminati kucing, setiap kali binatang peliharaan itu datang menghampiri mereka sambil dengan mengiau dan menggeselkan badan dengan penuh manja,hati yang gundah pasti cair dan akan terbit perasaan teruja, gembira dan rasa sayang.

Namun, berlainan pula dengan seekor kucing bernama Oscar yang berpelesiran di hospital Steere House di Rhode Island, Amerika Syarikat.

Kedatangannya di tepi katil pesakit amat digeruni oleh setiap orang.

Ini kerana kehadiran kucing berwarna coklat bertompok kelabu di belakang badan dan putih di bahagian perutnya itu menandakan si pesakit bakal menemui ajal dalam masa terdekat.

Semua kakitangan dan doktor hospital itu mengetahui kelebihan kucing yang mempunyai kelebihan luar biasa ini.



Kehadiran Oscar 'digeruni' kerana ia menandakan ajal seseorang pesakit telah sampai.

Mereka tahu sudah sampai masanya untuk memberitahu ahli-ahli keluarga apabila Oscar 'melawat' si pesakit tertentu.

Jika diasingkan di luar bilik pesakit itu, kucing itu akan mencakar pintu dan dinding sebagai tanda ia ingin masuk ke bilik tersebut.

Malah sesetengah ahli keluarga memuji kucing itu kerana mereka percaya Oscar telah datang untuk memberikan sokongan moral atas kematian saudara-mara atau rakan.

Pelbagai teori dan andaian dibuat berhubung dengan kelebihan Oscar.

Ada yang berpendapat kucing tertentu memiliki keupayaan menghidu sel-sel pesakit yang sudah mati dan bakal menemui ajal tidak lama lagi.

Oscar dipercayai termasuk dalam golongan kucing istimewa yang memiliki keupayaan tersebut.
-edirossa

ANSWERS TO THE QUIZ

1) How long did the Hundred Years War last? 116 years

2) Which country makes Panama hats? Ecuador

3) From which animal do we get catgut? Sheep and Horses

4) In which month do Russians celebrate the October Revolution? November

5) What is a camel's hair brush made of? Squirrel fur

6) The Canary Islands in the Pacific are named after what animal? Dogs

7) What was King George VI's first name? Albert

8) What color is a purple finch? Crimson

9) Where are Chinese gooseberries from? New Zealand

10) What is the color of the black box in a commercial airplane? Orange (of course)


haha...i guess most of u failed the quiz, and i was too...

WORLD'S EASIEST QUIZ

Hi everybody, For this entry, i got a quiz for u all...
Passing requires 4 correct answers
But dun worry this mark will not not be included in ur Cary mark..have fun.

1) How long did the Hundred Years' War last?

2) Which country makes Panama hats?

3) From which animal do we get cat gut?

4) In which month do Russians celebrate the October Revolution?

5) What is a camel's hair brush made of?

6) The Canary Islands in the Pacific are named after what animal?

7) What was King George VI's first name?

8) What color is a purple finch?

9) Where are Chinese gooseberries from?

10) What is the color of the black box in a commercial airplane?

Write your answer first then chekidout on the next post...Gud Luck =)

Alhamdulillah...Wa syukurillah...

Alhamdulillah...Wa syukurillah...
Bersyukur sepanjang waktu...

lagu yang seringkali kite dengar bile saja bukak tv untuk melihat sinetron2 disitu...
lagu yang baik yang membawe kite mengingat kembali nikmat2 yang telah Allah beri pada kita yang seringkkali kita abaikan.

Antara nikmat2 Allah yang dia berikan pada kite yang seringkali kita terlupe akan adanya ialah:
1. Nikmat anggota badan yang sihat dan sempurna yang kita boleh gunakan untuk beribadah,menuntut ilmu,beriadah, berukhuwah dan lain-lain.
2. Nikmat pakaian, tempat tidur, makanan, dan semua keperluan harian yang mana ianya masih menjadi kebutuhan bagi sesetengah penduduk di dunia.
3. Nikmat Iman dan Islam iaitu nikmat yang yang mana hanya orang betol2 memiliki iman sahaja akan merasakan nikmatnya menjadi seorang yang sentiasa dilingkungi hidayah Allah.
4. Nikmat kesusahan yang diberikan agar kite kembali kepada ajaran, perintah dan supaye kita menjadi lebih dekat kepada yang maha Esa.
5. Nikmat berukhuwah atas dasar persamaan akidah yang hanya boleh dipisahkan dengan hilangnya nyawa dari badan.
6.banyak lagi nikmat Allah yang tak terhitung banyaknya.
“Dan jika kamu menghitung-hitung nikmat Allah, niscaya kamu tak dapat menentukan jumlahnya. Sesungguhnya Allah benar-benar Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang.” (QS. Al-Nahl :18).

Fabiayyiala irabikuma tukazzibaan....
maka nikmat tuhanmu yang manakah yg telah kamu dustakan...

MasyaAllah...banyak betul nikmat yang kite tak sedarkan selama ini yang mana apabila ia di tarik baru kita akan merasa kehilangan.Saudara2 dan sahabat2, sebelum kita kehilangan nikmat2 ini marilah kiranya kita manfaatkan seluruhnya agar kita tidak merasa rugi apabila kite kehilangannye nanti...
Para ulama mengemukakan tiga cara bersyukur pada nikmat yang maha esa iaitu:

1.Bersyukur dengan hati:
kita mengetahui dan sentiasa menyedari bahawa seluruh nikmat yang kita peroleh setiap detik hidup kita tidak lain berasal dari Allah. Hanya Allahlah yang mampu menganugrahkan nikmat-Nya.

2.Bersyukur dengan ucapan:
Ungkapan yang paling baik untuk menyatakan syukur kita kepada Allah adalah hamdalah. Dalam sebuah hadist Rasulullah bersabda, “Barang siapa mengucapkan subhanallah, maka baginya 10 kebaikan. Barangsiapa membaca Laa ilaaha illa allah, maka baginya 20 kebaikan. Dan barangsiapa membaca Alhamdulillah, maka baginya 30 kebaikan.”


3.Bersyukur dengan perbutan:
Dalam erti perbuatan kita menggunakan setiap nikmat yang diberikan seperti diatas sekurang-kurangnya kearah kebaikan, iaitu agar ia dapat memberi manfaat kepada kita dan orang lain disamping menjadikannya sebagai satu ibadah kepada Allah.

sesuuai dengan ungkapn dari Abu Hazim Salamah bin Dinar yang berkata:
"Perumpamaan orang yang memuji syukur kepada Allah hanya dengan lidah, namun belum bersyukur dengan ketaatannya, sama halnya dengan orang yang berpakaian hanya mampu menutup kepala dan kakinya, tetapi tidak cukup menutupi seluruh tubuhnya. Apakah pakaian demikian dapat melindungi dari cuaca panas atau dingin?"

My final year...project.

Final Year Project (FYP) is a compulsory for all final year student. Each student will choose their topic according to supervisor and topic of their interest. Considering water as the most important element for living I chose to study about water quality analysis. In our country main water source is from river which flow from mountains to the sea. So if the water flow from the mountain is not polluted it can reduce the cost for water treatment. Other than that, drinking clean water increase our general health.
if our river water is clean we no need Bio-Aura, Hai-O and whatsoever...haha.

In this project i want to determine the classes of river function as water supply for Karak area. Parameters measured for water class assessment are pH, Dissolved Oxygen, Biological Oxygen Demand, Chemical Oxygen Demand, Total Suspended Solid and Ammonical Nitrogen Content value. Some of these parameters will be determine at sampling site (in Situ) and some will be brought back to lab for assessment.

At the end of this research i would determine suitability of this water for washing, cleaning, drinking and other usage.if you are staying at karak or bentong area, just wait and see how clean is your river water.stay tuned.huhu.

Journey of my life

You are what you have done in the past and What you do now will determine yourself in the future.That is who i am, a student of IIUM kuantan campus studying Biomedical science Course with industry concentration.Now i am in my fourth year and InsyaAllah will be completed my degree very soon.After graduate....( Not yet a journey of my life,haha)

Chilhood and Primary School

The first place i see was puchong, where i am being born on february 18 1986.that was at my grandma house with the help of nurse.then i grow up until 4 years old at sungai penchala. After that my parents move to Melaka. I started my first education at 5 years old and it was at Tadika Kemas Nyalas.Then i was sent to pre-school at 6 years old at Sekolah kebangsaan Nyalas up to standard sixth.a lot of things i learn from this school.in the evening i have to attend 'mengaji' class and 'Sekolah Agame'.Life was fun with friends in the school. Its been a tradition for me and my team to compare result for midyear and final exam.Being in a school at a village it was not a big deal to be in top 10 in the class.Interesting fact about that school is hostel is provided for standard five and sixth students.At standard sixth i was sent to hostel even though my house is just infront of school and i was appointed as prefect and head for hostel student.


Secondary school

After standard sixth my family move to tangkak. This time i choose to stay at home and school at nearby school. My secondary school was Sek. Men. Keb. Tun mamat. Here life was full of excitement.As this is not religious or boarding school i met with more chinese and indian community. We were in class doing school work and other activities together. Here i learn their culture, and some simple common word they use.I got to know other races better.Other than that,here i join many school activities to enhance leadership and life skills.Uniform unit i joined was Kadet Bomba whih is among the most active uniform unit in school.



Maticulation time

After completed my SPM i apply IIUM because of its "International" and "Islamic" title.Alhamdulillah i manage to get in but with engineering course. As my interest is more on Biology i change courses into Biological science. It takes and most of the students 2 years to complete the course. There i learn a lot about organization and team work. Compare to other students I was having shock to know that i am the only guy get into UIA from my school.Fuhhh!!!! i know nobody but alhamdulillah at last i manage to have friends and close friends to share my life with.huhu.


Degree Courses

After completed matric...we stay in Gombak for a semester and a bad news come...
hahaha..."Our Kulliyyah of Science is moving to Kuantan" and now here we are...
After three years being here alhamdullah i manage to adapt and know the meaning of life...and life to be to continue.